how should I behave with this girl ??

Well, the moment I saw her in the college I liked her. but I dont know how to behave with her .. First, I added her on a social site 5 months ago ,,, she replied that she cant add guys on fb !! but she promised to see me in the college next day .. but I was dumb enough to ignore her .. later she kept ignoring me in return till this day .. however, I talk to her on occasions especially during exams time and so on .. few days ago, she sent me emails about college midterms, so I added her email on msn, now I discovered that she banned me to even see her page on fb .. I am really confused .. I know there is no obvious relation between me and her but I want her and to win her .. I look forward that YOU help me … thx in advance

Answer #1

she probably thinks youre a bit…uh, creepy. (no offence) because girls are really nice (doesnt wanna hurt your feelings) when you talk interact with them in person, but they find it easier to ignore someone over the internet.

Answer #2

I don’t got much advice to make up a recipe, but a good thing to do to avoid being blocked, ignored n’ so on is by not doing it yourself (there are excuses, but only in the extreme cases of fear but that’s not this case I believe)…

Don’t focus on that she added you to the banned list.. sure there’s probably a reason, but the time you go around thinking about it makes you more paranoid about all of her movements ‘’oh damn is she annoyed with me now, should I go check on her status on some social website, can I talk to her? no I probably shouldn’t or she might get more annoyed with me, maybe I should text her, then she’ll probably not get as annoyed hmm’’… You get all sorts of bad thoughts only cause you got a feeling she is a little annoyed with you (when she probably isn’t at all)

I’d advice you to in the future with her and others… do not add her to your fb-list, msn-list, skype-list, secondlife-list or any sorts of list BEFORE you have asked her if you can directly. It shows you’re polite and that you respect her decision if she should say no. Assuming you can add people without asking is the same as jumping in on their space without asking if you can first. Most people prefere to invite or be invited before anything happens.

Since you’re confused why she banned you from fb, you could try ask her about it. She owes you at least a little explaination, whether she thinks you ought to know why she banned you or not. It could have been that you’ve done something to her without knowing and that’s why she banned you. Then you can explain what you meant by it and that it wasn’t to make her upset.

I tried once to get something going with a girl I really liked too. She was in one of the other classes at school and were on my sister’s tabletennis team. I tried to invade her space with my presence too, n’ tried getting her phone number… think she told me about 3 or 4 times she couldn’t remember the number… being young n’ naiv I never got the message that she might didn’t wanted me to have her number…

(but really a little message to all girls who reads this… don’t be such mean b*es n’ use an excuse like that… just say it as it is instead of keeping the guy interested in you in a loop like a stupid fool… aint his fault he can’t see through your lie when he likes you)

So take things slow, be polite, respect her and her space, try n’ have some good conversations n’ some fun n’ talk with her if she suddenly confuses you.

hope it’ll help you some

More Like This
Advisor

Love & Relationships

Dating, Marriage, Breakups

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

Bad Bad Girl

Online Dating, Relationships, Romance

Advisor

Girls for Date

Online Dating Services, Social Networking, Matchmaking Services

Advisor

Single Dating Girls

Online dating, Relationships, Local meetups

Advisor

LadaDate

Dating Services, Russian Culture, Relationship Advice

Advisor

Online Chat US

Social Networking, Dating, Online Community