How do you honestly know if an older guy is interested?

There is this guy. The guy with the black sweater. Lol. And hes 4 years older than I am but I kinda like him. I liked him when I was 19 and he was 23 and now im 20 and hes 24. Now the very first conversatin him and I had was about age.. That was back when I was 19. I find it strange that that would be our very first conversation…?? What do you think? Im trying to figure out if he indeed likes me but I dont know if the age difference is a problem or not? He does cute things like open the door for me in the car or kiss me on the cheek when im sick but I just dont know. That could be just cause hes a gentleman you know..?

Any help ? Lol. Please I really wanna know.. With out asking him flat out. Lol.

Answer #1

24 and 20 isn’t a big deal at all. I have married friends where the age gap is closer to ten years…and they’re perfectly happy.

Besides which, if he has some experience and is in decent shape…he should be a lot more fun. Try flirting with him and see where it goes…if he’s a normal guy, it should be as easy as turning on a light switch if you invite him over….

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