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How do you know if a dude is into you?
People often make the mistake of thinking that everything is different between the genders in this instance and it's quite a fallacy. Many of the signs are similar. If a guy likes you, you do have to make the effort to interact with him more closely to find it out. That way you get to see the little signs. Assuming there is a guy that you're thinking might like you, I will list a few little signals that a lot of us guys give off...
One of the most obvious signs is blushing or pink cheeks (without a correlation to hot weather or anything like that). Another is a conversational thing where you notice they lose track a lot and often say unnecessary/ irrelevant things. Another sign is a nervous (often higher-pitched) tone. Often we will actually mildly tease girls who we like and it isn't always hard to see through it (so pay attention, lol). Typically we stare at girls who we like as much as we possibly can (we try to not let girls notice, haha). If this person is a friend, he may text you (etc) more often than even your closer friends and that can be a sign.
Just look out for signs like that. You know him better than I do (assuming this isn't a hypothetical-type question) and different people act in different ways. Use what you know of this person as your guide and you will undoubtedly see something if it is the case that this person does like you.
Haha Have you heard of the book, "Hes Just Not Into You", I bought it- a lot didnt relate to me but it did help on certain things. There are little things you have to look at; Does he call you more than you call him? Does he text you? When you text him, does he reply fast? Does he ask to hang out? Does he make an effort to see you? Does he care about your feelings? There are so many factors in this. Just keep your eyes open. Hope I have helped:)
sometimes it hard to know a guy judgment... but if he is always around, smiling talking to you, playing jokes,,, he's probably into you. one incidient I had,was when this guy keep calling me names, picking on me, makes me feel like he hates me. turns out he actually like me...
here's something new that you probably never would've thought of. you'll know if a guy likes you when you get a romantic poem or song from him. I mena, no random guy is going to do that for fun; it's too creative and takes a lot of time to do it for nothing.
