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How do I pleasure her?

okay well, my friend is really hard to please in bed and I want to know how ill know if im doing something right. She doesnt like showing her reactions so I never really know. but sometimes she lets it slip that im doing it right. Like sometimes when I finger her, she has no reaction and its like she gets bored cause shell push my hand away and finger me instead. But sometimes, shell let emotions slip and show reaction to what I do.what can I do to make sure im doing something right when she doesnt show that I am? also, she never tells me when I ask. so what do I do?

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Answer #1

Heyya Hun, ok so I’m going to assume your either bicurious or are bisexual. I am bisexual… So this is what I used to do for my ex-girlfriend and she loved it:

so you can always start by just turning her on, kissing, makeing out, touching… You can kiss her neck, bite her softly- if she’s into that kinda stuff, grop her- threw her shirt then her shirt then under her bra. You can do the same with her vag. Rub her over her pants then under her pants but over her panties…then go into her panties. Hopefully by then she’s really turned on and wet for you. Once your in her panties you can start rubbing her vagina, slow and gental rub her clit in a circuler motion(about 3 circles) then move your fingers down over her center(opening.where you enter your finger) then slide your fingers back up bringing her own moisture up over her clit. You can do that for a whole or till she’s begging for you to go inside her. Make sure she’s really wet before you try to finger her. If she’s dry/not wet enough it will hurt her. Once you are inside her you can pull in and out a few times but remember variation feels awesome. So when your inside always curve yourfingers upward(not to much. Like a hook.) when you have your finger as you can go start moving your finger(s)- you can do it in a circle/rotateing, what’s really good and stimulates the G-spot is pushing up towards you/yourselves or her and moving your fingers in a “come hither” motion. Masagges the roof of her vagina with your fingers to stimulate her. This will bring her to climax. How far have you gone with her? Or want to go? I can tell you A LOT more if you wanna know anything else. Hope I helped sweetie. ^^

Answer #2

Keep doing what your doing, a good thing to get would be a small vibrator (one that doesn’t make any noise). Keep this well out of sight so when your performing cunnilingus on her you have this as a special surprise. Check to see if she’s wet enough so you can use the vibrator. User her own natural vaginal lubrication to wet the vibrator. You can do this by slipping it in (while its off). Then once its lubed up, you can gently pull her clitoral hood back. Then you can turn it on, when its on you circle her clit lightly with it. No pressure here, just hold it a bit above her clit and that should do the trick. :)

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