How do I know if im good or not?

thx :) and I’ve heard the too young thing but I dont exactly believe in it because I was raped before, twice. im not scared of men all the time, only sometimes. but because of the past experiences I dont think much about sex anymore … I have nothing to loose so if my boyfriend (no longer single) has taken std tests and is clean, has condoms, and we are in love… why wait? I love him a lot, more than any other guy ever and I believe we are in love :) and we like pleasing eachother anyway. so again, thank you

I think your asking your question in the wrong manner.

Being good at sex shouldn’t matter. Sex is a form of expressing love, intimacy, trust and care for another person. Also, I know this isn’t something you wanna read but your only 14 years old. Sex should be the last thing on your mind. Its not something that you just wanna give to any fool on the street. Its a moment to be cherished by two people.

Now with that being said – this is when communication comes into play. You and your partner should be well aware of each others turn ons. Talking to your partner about what you like and your partner likes is best when it comes to things like this. It saves the trouble and the mystery behind it all. It also develops a sense of trust and passion between the two of you. If you can’t do this with your partner I doubt you should be engaging in intercourse at all.

Hope this helps.

good is a relative Q . be you , no more no less ,

know it sounds korny but is true your the only you ever created

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