How do I get my mom to trust me ?

Hey anyone who can give me some advice I would really appreated it . My mom doesnt trust me anymore to do anything . Because she found out that I have been with 2 people. I don’t blame her for not trusting me but I miss her trust I used to be the girl who never gets in trouble an now that she found out about that she wont let me do anything or go anywhere. I feel like I have lost her trust forever I really miss talkin to her an her being there to listen to me an not to judge me an to trust me like she used to it’s no fair . How do I gain her trust back I really really want her to trust me again please someone help me please

Answer #1

let me tell you something I know what you did was wrong but the past is the past trust iam in that problem now but just sit down and have a talk with say mom I know I did a mistake but I really want you to trust me again and be honest cause if you lie you want get anywhere but you will get in more trouble so take my edvice trust me

Answer #2

Talk to her. Tell her you’re sorry and you made a mistake and that everyone does. Tell her you love her. Don’t say anything about her trusting you. Just do what’s right from now on, and don’t do stuff that will get you in trouble that she will find out about. …I have more to say, send me a msg.

Answer #3

tell her how you feel let her know that your sry and that you miss her and you want to regain her trust and maybe she will come around

Answer #4

dont get caught of course I try to keep my mother out of my life

Answer #5

Once lost, trust can almost never be regained. This is a life lesson from the school of hard knocks.

Answer #6

hmm its really tough situation to face. do something that please your mom and show that you care her a lot than anything. make her understand your love hope the best

Answer #7

It’ll take awhile for your mom to trust you again once lost it takes awhile to regain trust because trust is something you should never tak for granted. talk to her and tell her your sorry and don’t ask how regain her trust it’ll take time. do things she wouldnt normally ask you to do. just be good and saty out of trouble and just remind her how much you love her and after awhile she’ll learn to truast you but like I said it’ll take awhile. I am just earning trust back from my dad it is taking awhile but it is happening.

good luck

Answer #8

The only advice I have for you is to; talk to her and tell her how you feel explain to her that you made a mistake by not talking to her to begin with. If you keep showing her that you are responsible then she will trust you again. But you cant tell her that you are not going to do that again and then do it again and her find out because she may never trust you again. If you want to continue to be sexualy active then you NEED to let her know so she can put you on birth control. Good luck :)

Answer #9

that is the some where to me…my mother donot trust me and she donot let go nowhere and I cannot talk to her about nuthin

Answer #10

I am facing the same problem here… dont worry. Dont make her angry and dont avoid her cause she wont like it.. tell her what you do at college or how your day was and how you enjoyed your day. That way your mom has a statisfaction that you have changed. be true to urself and God.Belive me..dont stay out late. do the things she like and try to avoid boys. I mean for some time that way mom finds you totally changed…avoid bad company..

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