How do I be popular at my school?

I be my self last year they hate me I act all nice cheery and they say I’m weird. this year I try to be nice to my old enemys and at least they don’t be mean. but I don’t get it I act like all the other popular girls but I’m not popular why?

Answer #1

In generalisation they have some of these qualities that make them popular: Good Looking (fit) Wealthy They have Attitude ( Everyone loves a Rebel) Humor Everyone wants to be the “popular” kid as school. Talker (the one who has all the gossip)

However It is noted in socail research that popular people are good lairs. They are who everyone else want them too be and they have good imagination. I know everyone says “be yourself” and that sounds a bit “ cheesy” but thats all you can be. School is quite a harsh place and children can be cruel but you need to find friends who love you for who you are or when the s”*% hits the fan you will find out that thought so called “friends” arnt going to be there for you. If I was you I would go in with the attitude of “this is me” if you dont like it then “F^c% off!” people will respect you more for that which if more than being popular. When I was at school I hated the “plastics and chavs” but you soon respected them, because when it came to a friday night they would make me look girly ( as I was quite gothic at one point) and if there was any trouble the chavs would soon kick their butts. Be open yourself to people and not closed off you may think that you are too good to be there friend or they are too popular, Just think to yourself that you are good enough. Hope this helped.

Answer #2

I just started fresh man year and crap and I noticed that the more friends you have the better and more popular..in fact you can be friends with people that don’t like you but just don’t hang with them all the time..in fact look for friend that are right and suit you and they should like you for who you are…explore and get into as many yearbook pictures and thing…I’ve been in a couple of fights and that started me up on being popular a little but I don’t really recommend it..if you are desperate get into a couple really bloody fights and win an that will make you popular fast…but then you may have to sign a contract stating you will never get in a fight and if you do you will pay $xxx fine and crap…I don’t have that contract yet and I am hoping I never do:)but the advice I said should be helpful and never be snotty or mean to any friends unless you truly don’t like them!!

Answer #3

you shouldnt be acting like anyone but yerself. if those chicks didnt like you last yr because of the way you acted then there not friend material because you shouldnt haveta act a certain way just to be popular. -_- popularity isnt everything you no..

Answer #4

I think im popular because im friends with everyone and date the hot footy guys so ill tell you how I got where I am, you gotta be urself (obviously) and nice but not too nice or it will get annoying, show off your real talents and personallity and if they dont like it, theyre not worth it, just keep the friends you have and enjoy not being poplar because its like being a singer or an actress and the whole school is paparazzi. hope I helped <3

Answer #5

mhm.^^^ it seems like it is tho. im not so popular either I was new to my skwl last year and I made frends but not th people you lable ‘popular’,ya know? not 2 b mean,because I luv my frends 2 death. but then this year,this grrl hanna moved to my skwl,and she happens to be really really pretty,have really fashionabl clothes,and has a boyfrend and slightly mor outgoing[all the things im not,mind u]and she was immediatly befreinded by all th kwl kids. I felt like sh!t. if you find out th answer 2 your question,tell me;;

Answer #6

idk but at school im mostly the outsider few friends and that sh!t but on facebook i have them as a friend on face book just get awesome new shirts new look dye ur hair and mostly i think POPULAR PEPLE ARE F U C K E RS!!!!!!!

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