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I am the oldest person in my grade and I feel like I am the only one who is over immature things like these (could this be why I'm over this stuff and they aren't?). Most people in my grade are still stereotyping people! It's our last year in jr high, so why does it matter anymore? When my friends talk about liking some guy in my grade and drools over him, I roll my eyes. I cant stand the perverted jokes, the 'puppy love' bs, and PDA. Rumors? Give me a break.. what are you? 10? I hate when they talk about wanting to "lose it''.. even though I have already, It's not a wise choice, I realized. Why do they even think about talking about that kind of thing in public?
What age will they mature-up and realize that they don't have to flirt with every guy they see, or worry what people think about them? In how many years will I be surrounded by mature people? What grade do I have to wait to be in? Meanwhile, how can I surround myself with more ''grown up' people? I'm 14.
Age does not matter when people mature. Ussually it how the pearson does it on his own. I mysef mature a lot, I just 14, well.. I'm going to the25th but the point it that I have a side of me that is not mature and I know when to be mature and when to be a crazy kid like I am. Some people are mature and know how to be mature they just do it when really dificult things happen, Growing in a pearson is what they expiriance trough out life and there way of thinking, Some people are bubly, there life is hard but they keep going and thay are always happy and playing around, that does not mean inmature, it means they are strong and an asome pearson. A depressed understands all the hard moments but is mature in his or her own way.
Everybody grows at their own pace and sometimes we just have to hold in there because that is just how life works. Nothing is just how we want it.
Good luck!:)
You're in for a tough life, as precocious as you are. I am very similar. I was the older, more mature boy all throughout school. I hated the place and just wanted to get through it. I separated myself from the ridiculous little dramas and power plays of my peers, and thus I saw the complete immaturity of it all from the outside. I never had many friends because nobody could relate to me with their childish whims and indulgences.
My mom told me once that I have an old soul. Sure my body and physical existence are only 24 years on this earth, but the energy that drives it all (me) from within is ancient and wise. I think the same may apply to you.
There are others like you out there, you just gotta find them. Hell, you apparently just found 5 or 6.
same thing for me but its way worse, im a guy and all of the guys like chase each other and do crazy shit like have like pile contest shit and the girls talk about the same shit every day and flirt with everyone but they have never went out with anyone I'm 13 They dont like me thats why I hang with 9rs and 10rs and a lot of the 9rs are still immature band I think its gr 10 that people become like chill and mature
well im the same way but im a guy and basically do you know why people in high school hate freshman its becase of their always being perverted and saying stupid stuff ususally people straiten up around 10th grade
I don't think it's age that makes people mature, people don't just snap into maturity. I think it's life and expierience that make a person mature, although some people are just naturally mature.