How can I trust him again?

even if he gave you his voicemail code in the first place, you shouldn’t have changed it. it isn’t yours to change. that shows immaturity. if he changed it again he had every right to do so, and if I were him (hiding something or not) I would not want to give you the new code either. grow up. dump him. move on.

u know what? give him another short period of time (eg a week or two), and if you dont trust him by then, say BYE - BYE!! seriously! no point in being with someone that you dont trust ! move on ;) xx-anna-xx

Sounds like you have every right to not trust him and sounds like he’s trying to manipulate you by just saying ‘’ Trust me my gosh ‘’ No thats not how it works at all , I think you need to move on , you deserve better than that , and you know in your heart you do

Dear scooby1304, those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing. If he changing things so you have no access then I would say he should not be trusted. You have a responsibility for the way he treats you and he’s cheated so it is up to him to gain your trust back…he isn’t doing a good job at it. Unless you believe he won’t cheat again you will never trust him…frankly at this point I would be trusting him either. Sue…good luck

WELL THIS IS WHAT I THINK ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER. BUT IF HE IS CHANGING THE CODES HE MUST HAVE SOMETHING TO HIDE FROM YOU. I KNOW PLENTY OF GIRLS THAT THERE HUSBANDS AND BOYFRIENDS HAS CHEATED. AND THEY STILL DO TO THIS DAY/ SO IF YOU DONT WANT TO GET YOUR HEART BROKE I WOULD GET OUT OF IT NOW BECAUSE YOUR JUST GOING TO GET HURT SOONER OR LATER.

WELL THIS IS WHAT I THINK ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER. BUT IF HE IS CHANGING THE CODES HE MUST HAVE SOMETHING TO HIDE FROM YOU. I KNOW PLENTY OF GIRLS THAT THERE HUSBANDS AND BOYFRIENDS HAS CHEATED. AND THEY STILL DO TO THIS DAY/ SO IF YOU DONT WANT TO GET YOUR HEART BROKE I WOULD GET OUT OF IT NOW BECAUSE YOUR JUST GOING TO GET HURT SOONER OR LATER.