how can I tell her that we should wait

I think I want to wait before having sex with my girlfriend. for couple of reason. 1. would be that am 14 and she 15. we should wait still we get older. then another one would be I wouldnt want to make a fool out of myself ( am a virgin she not). ect. it would to hard just to say. I think we should wait. that would make me feel dumb. or scary. then if anyone found out I said that. they would make jokes. which would piss me off. I need a way to tell her we should wait

Answer #1

You have two options, you can tell her the truth, just be honest, I’m sure she’ll appreciate it, and understand. Otherwise, you could tell her you want to see where your relationship is going, and you don’t want to seem like a player or that you’re using her

Answer #2

just tell her the truth it doesnt change anything, it doesnt make you any different if you want to wait, tell her that and if anyone else makes a joke about it tell them to f*ck off because its really none of there buisness and it shouldnt affect there life anyway

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