how can I tame my crazy frizzy knotty hair?

omg1 same problem right here =] haha im all white tho =] but I have suuuper curly hair, and it can get poofy too. and I know what you mean about once it drying being like “bleh, ugh, gr”
so what I do, it when im in the shower I wash it everyother day, but I do get it wet and somtimes still do conditioner, but never shampoo everyday. its strips your hair of natural oils, and keeps it from being hydrated. then when I do condition it (everyday) I leave it in while im washing my face, ect. after I brush it out, (still in the shower) when im out I put in a leave in conditioner while its wet and brush it through (im not sure what its called but I think its “infusium” or somthing similar to that. then I put in random stuff or whatever I happen to have ex: right now I have ‘treseme curl mouse” other times I use “osis” and ect then I let it air dry! =] I also never blow dry it unless im in a hurry and its soaking wet, otherwise I use a towel and dab it. and I also rarly straighten it, , infact I’ve only straightened it 2 times in my life haha so if you follow this, it should stay pretty tame =] haha at least mine does, to an extent =]

hope it helps and good luck!