How can I support a baby at 14?

My parents wont alow me to abort the bby but we dont have the money to pay the bills and or support the bby. What can I do? How can I do this? I’m very worried.

Answer #1

simple give it up for adoption

but if you want the baby get a job and there are always food stamps and programs that help parents with children such as feeding and clothing

Answer #2

Maybe you can get a part-time job. Some Catholics and Right-to-Lifers may be able to help you, and maybe you can see if you can apply for some form of social welfare. Your parents must also contribute.

Answer #3

Is only abortion out of the question? Why not adoption? If you cant take care of the baby on yourself than maybe you should give it to a family that can and wants to. And if that is out the question to, than hun, you’ll have to do your best! And try to get the father of the baby to help out. If you need anybody to talk to than fun mail me(:

Answer #4

I dont think you should have an abortoin but consider adoption with a good couple who cant have kids. Oh and were is the dad in all this, he got you pregant , he should help. Good Luck

Answer #5

Where is the guy who got you pregnant and his family? He has a responsibility now as well.

Oh and abortion or adoption should be YOUR CHOICE, not your parents. I suggest speaking to a counselor about it and figuring out if abortion is really what you want to do.

Answer #6

if your parents wont let you abort it then you will have to rely on them for money because there wouldnt be a good enough job at your age.

Answer #7

all I know a bby is a baby..

edit:.. sorry I’ve got ointment in my eyes and cant see properly..

if your parents wont allow an adoption and you cant afford the child how can anything we say help… you must raise the child to your best abilities and sacrafice clothes and food for yourself to keep your child comfatable and warm. welcome to life sweetheart.

maybe you should have listened juring sex education and herd that condoms help.

Answer #8

As a parent, you should take care of the baby, you had sex which you thought you were responsible for that, and now you have to be responsible for this. God wouldn’t want you to just throw that baby away, so you really need to try your hardest to take care of it. I mean there is adoption. But its a lot better if you keep it and raise it. Try selling some of your old stuff, and try to collect up the money to buy diappers and such. You will do fine, just have faith in yourself.

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Answer #9

thegurl,Why should her parents have to give her money? They didnt tell her to go out and get pregnant.

But maybe you could babysit for the money,Im 16 pregnant,I have a job,I go to school and babysit in my free time just to support my baby.

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