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how can I stop this?

I really need help im gone way to dependant on my mother my father wants me to go off for the night with him and his wife they got me concert tickets and wer stayin in a hotel and all but im really worried bout leavin my mammy I just dont know what to do :( I havent stayed away from her for a night since november pls pls help I keep gettin like anxiety and al 4 sum reason

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Answer #1

You have to learn to be independent. Don’t let mom’s dependencies keep you down. Sometime tough love is in reverse. you have to let mom know you need your own space. If you think you need your mom that much, then you have to decide, do I want to be my own person, or mom’s zombie? Good Luck.

Answer #2

well you’ve been spending a lot of times with your mom you should try something different. yeah you dont want your mom to feel lonely but you should get out and have some fun time. either with your dad and his wife or with your friends. just try it. you’ll probably like it.

Answer #3

awww. that’s cutee. :) but if you dont want to then dont.

but I think you should go away more often, like sleep over your friends house ones in a while so you could grow away from that. I know cause” I was the same way before. Lol

but go, concerts are always fun :D

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