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How Can I Overcome my Shyness Especially with Girls?

I have been shy all my life. I have improved, but it still feels as if nobody cares about me. I am in college and about to be 20 and I never had a girlfriend or gone to a party, and its not even like I’m ugly or anything. I always feel like the odd man out all the time, what should I do? Please help me!!

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Answer #1

Oh man, I know exactly where you’re coming from. I used to be incredibly shy myself. I still am a little shy but not nearly as much. The only real way to overcome this is to just risk it, really. Just suck it up and talk to the girl. And if she smiles at you or greets you one day, take the opportunity jump right in, and start talking about your classes or something like that. I’m still in bad shape when it comes to romantic relationships, though. lol Take it one step at a time, I suppose. And if she just straight up rejects you, just remember, it’s a big sea out there…

Answer #2

i think we all get a lil shy when it comes 2 talking to people we’re attracted to.so yurr not alone.just build up a conversation with the person,ask them what they’re interested in. =] hope this was helpful

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