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How can I learn to trust guys?

I have been raped by my 17 year old dousing and his 18 year old friend 3 years ago and my dads 43 year old friend raped me 2 years ago…I had a bad relationship where my boyfriend denied we were together and made out with another girl while drunk… I have also been beaten with a pool table stick to where I had a few broken ribs by my dad. I don’t know how to leArn to trust guys again… Please help

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Answer #1

Ok I’m not being melodramatic… I did tell my dad when my cousin did that to me he first time and he didn’t believe me. I didn’t report it the second time because I was a little older and it’s an embarrasing and violating thing. You won’t ever understand. Thanks archangelval :) I appreciate your encouraging comment

Answer #2

UGLY TRUTH: You can’t trust guys. I dont understand how you got “rape” so many times without punishment to these rapist. sounds melodramatic to me, and you did not report it, it’s your fault.

Answer #3

OMG!!!.. you can’t actually trust guys..based on your experience…but the only thing you can do for now is to trust yourself… time will come and the kind of guy whom you can totally trust will come…and he will be nothing like those guys who screwed you over…

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