How can I have painless sex?

I am in a long distance relationship with this guy I REALLY love, he is coming to see me soon, he is really big ‘down there’ and I’m a virgin who is really small ‘down there’ when he comes down he wants to have sex, is there any easy painless way to have sex with? He is scared to hurt me and I’m scared that he mite, is lube the only answer?

Answer #1

Ok to begin with, if you still keep calling it “down there” you’re not ready… But talk to him about it… if he is gentle enough, it should be fine and also make sure you are really into it and if you are, with a lot of foreplay, it should loosen you up just a bit and make you wet enough to make the pain less. Well… hope you have fun and remember… USE PROTECTION!

Answer #2

yes, lube is really the only answer that and being relaxed, comfortable and trying not to tense up but its likley to still hurt a bit also remember to LEARN about sex before you go off having it learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it because the main reason why kids and teens get pregnant and get stds is because of a lack of sex education

Answer #3

He first couple times you have sex hurts but after it feels good. I don’t think that there is anyway to make it hurt that much less. It doesn’t hurt that bad but, it still hurts. I’ve never used lube or anything but in my opinion, you shld stick with the all naturalll stuff lol.

Answer #4

everyone said it hurts the first tim ebut my fisrt time it didnt hurt at all so I don’t know??

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