How can I get orgasms?

I’ve been masturbating for years and I never really seem to get anywhere. I never really climax on my own, and even using various objects doesnt really seem to work. Like I get a little excited and wet, but then no orgasm. What should I do?

Answer #1

I know that it seems unfair, but guys hit puberty and shortly after - WHAM - orgasms are flying out right and left. Dr. Drew says that women can hit puberty but still take years to find that elusive release. (Yes some do get there right away.) Some women don’t figure out how to orgasm until their twenties. Some women are multi-orgasmic (5-8%), most are not.

Women are very diverse. Men, not so much. The main reason is that men have a tiny ‘Y’ sex chromosome compared to women’s (relatively) massive ‘X’ chromosome with a LOT more genes, and therefore more genetic variability.

Do not worry, though. There is nothing wrong with you. You will eventually figure it out. Try some of the tips that you will get here. There is also a method that you can use with the stream of warm water from a bathtub that I have heard is pretty successful.

Good Luck!!

Answer #2

Fingering can sometimes get you to orgasm if you hit the right spot. If you insert your fingers with your palm facing towards you and make a “come here” motion by pulling your fingers forward you should reach the G-Spot which can be very pleasuring, it’s just a matter of finding it. Once you are old enough, sex toys (especially vibrators) do wonders.

Answer #3

I use the bath… I lay under the faucet with my legs in the air and it feels awesome. to make it come faster I keep turning the water on hotter and squeeze my muscle inside my vagina. make sure its a sort of strong faucet. you can also use a removable shower head

Answer #4

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