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my girlfriend want me to finger her but im not sure how to.
dont be too nervous its no big deal and it is sometimes hard for it to feel good but it should be an enjoyable experience 1- if you start off slow and gentle and 2- if she has fingered herself before. Get her aroused with kissing and stroking etc and when you feel that she is wet down there ou can start rubbing the opening to her vagina. If you havnt felt this before just take a look as you are doing it, show interest and gently feel for the hole, push the tip of your finger where you feel at and try insert it just a little bit until she feels comfortable with more. ask her atleast once if thats ok for her. Touch the clitoris (at the top of the lips/labia) t the same time with your other hand and lightly touch her thighs and all round the area. You can slide your finger in and out gently or just move it from side to side or up and down a bit inside her.
welll... make sure you make out with her a long time first so she gets wet down there, because if shes not, you could hurt her. Dont worry about findin the hole, youll see its easy to find. Just go in and out real slow and swirl your finger in little circles. just remember, women's nerves down there are a lot more sensitive than men's and you need to use a lighter touch. Just try different things, youll be able to tell if she likes something by the way she responds to it... and dont forget, practice makes perfect lol
