Is it supposed to hurt this bad?

I understand, and I know you love your girlfriend, but you let a weak moment overcome you. This is how most relationships and marriages fall when a partner lets a weak moment take over their judgment. In every relationship and marriage, temptation WILL always pass by, but you need to practice logic and self-restraint.

This person might be super hot and attractive, but they are probably not a good a partner as your girlfriend and it’s a waste to destroy a relationship because of a fling (big or small), even if you admit to it, because if she forgives you too easily or at all, you might think that it’s okay and not such a bad thing to do. And you might do it again in the future because you were let off so easily.

They always say “once a cheater, always a cheater”. I know you’re going to learn your lesson, but do you think that you can control yourself a bit more in the future? Give you girlfriend a bit of time and space to think it through, let the hurt go away a little bit first before approaching her to discuss it and seek her forgiveness. Your promise to be faithful is all you can give to her after that. If she can’t accept that, you’ll have to respect that, as hard as it is. But at least you gave it one more go.

Well, we can’t tell what will happen in the future, can we? As cliche as it is, life is a series of moments and experiences - we live and learn.

thank you…

Thanks… And I think I can control myself more in the future… Im willing to do whatever I have to do in order to be with her... I just thought that telling her was the right thing to in order to have "thee perfect" relationship. .. I see now, that there is no such thing. Now though, I feel as if Im over her… Damn near cried all weekend but Im only fourteen. .. I don't know about this whole heartbreak thing... Ive never felt like this before and this shyt hurts… Im scared if we get back together, shell do it again… Or, what if the same situation happens again.?

Yeah you love your girlfriend, and it’s okay to cry. Did you kiss that girl back? Or did she kiss you on the cheek? The details matter to your girlfriend. And she feels that you cheated on her, because you let the other girl kiss you. You may say that she overreacted - maybe she did, maybe she didn’t. We don’t know the full story. But if it was a kiss that you tried to physically avoid, I don’t think she would be that mad at you. If she did, then maybe she is too immature to handle and talk about something like this.