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Am I the worst boyfriend?

I seem to have a problem with girlfriends I recently went out with one and about 4-5 months in I stopped loving her but didn’t want to break up with her it being so close to christmas. we broke up and now I want to go back out with her but I dont want to hurt her. also I was desperate about half a year ago for a relationship and was asking about anybody =( am I the worst boyfriend ever?

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Answer #1

Just because you’re desperate for a relationship doesn’t mean you should ask out anyone, this doesn’t make you a bad boyfriend but in order for you to be in a relationship you really want you have to at least be attracted to the girl or it just won’t work so you lose in the end anyway. if you stopped loving a girl you went out with its not your fault, she just wasn’t for you. if you honestly want to go back out with her because you care about her & not cause you want a relationship then you have to tell her you don’t want her to get hurt in the end, if she knows this and agrees to be in a relationship with you then its her problem if she does get hurt if you break up.

Answer #2

no your not the worst boyfriend. I’ve had meet and had worser personally. you just sound like the typical highskool boyfriend to me. you shouldnt play with peoples heart, because its not right & you know karma is a b*tch. If you want a friend that gives you benefits that’s fine, but having a girlfriend should be different. make sure the girl you want back is because of love and not because your feeling lonely &and need a quick fix. True love isnt a ‘’I love you but then again I dont’’…once you find that one you’ll know.

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