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my mom isnt supportive she wants me to have an abortion what do i do???!!!
hey I know how you feel im a pregnant teen 15 about to be 16 in november and im due in early april my mom wanted me to get an abortion but I told her thats not what I wanted and she had no say in it by law and she needed to accept me or else I was leaving and she would never see her grandchild I had a plan though I found a local shelter for pregnant teens that need housing just in case I had no place to live and made sure I had a bag of clothes for a couple of days. after I told my mom she was angry but she seen I was serious about keeping my child and is now completely supportive of me and my baby... Just know that your parents want whats best for you and in times like this only you know whats best for you, you're young your mom just wants you to live a normal teenage life... but if youre planning on keeping this child at 13 DO NOT drop out it will be the worst choice, you need an education at least high school diploma to get a decent paying job. Just tell your mom your concerns about abortion and tell her you arent comfortable with it, I Wish you the best and I hope this helped
Dear 13andpregnant6623, Your mother is supportive by giving you an option. There is a reason abortion is offered to young girls in your situation. Have your mother set up an appointment with the doctor and discuss the pros and cons. Until you are better educated with the abortion process, the reason for an abortion and all the facts do not rule it out. Find out about all your options and choices and what each means to your future as well as what it would mean to bring a child into this world in your situation. Don't shut any doors untill you have all the facts. At least this way you can make the best choice not only for you but for everyone involved. Sue...good luck
Well,Your parents,by law cant tell you,Its YOUR baby. But,There are a few things you need to consider,if you want to keep the baby.
1.Can you Support the baby? Do you have enough money to support the child's needs?
2.Will the baby put a damper on your educational life? Can you sitll go to school,and live a life?
3.Is there a father in the picture? Mmm?
I personally dont agree with abortions. I like adoption,better.
Please do not consider abortion! You will be stuck with the guilt of that decision for the rest of your life. If you go to a place like Planned Parenthood, they will act like abortion is the only choice, but it is not - think about the baby growing inside you right now...Take the above advice - it's spot on. Good luck!
I suggest you contact http://www.lifedynamics.com/ They are a group that can assist you. I'm very much against Abortion. . 13!!! What are you doing preganent? anyway Contact Lifedynamics they can help you and your mom and give you counceling.
Well you shouldn't have gotten pregnat in tha first place...but since you did just i would have to say to tell your mom that you want that baby and your going to keep it.
well by law once you are pregnant and wanna have it your parents are included in this say anymore...Your parents have no say soo she cant make you do nuthing...
HAVE ONE your mom is smart...