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dear Sir/Madam

ma name is joel, ma problem is I have been iin a relation for the last 10yrs only to find that my friend has been cheating on me , she never told me but I came to know it by myself, I felt si bad that ehe had somebody oter than me in her life when I asked why she did so , she told me because he paid her school fees and some financial support, I also was supporting but to be honest I could not pay the full school fees. I feel so bad particularly I loved her with all ma heart, I have tried to forget all bout her but I find ma self thinking of her. agian I salpped many times the day I realised she has been cheatng on me, after wards we parted ways . what worries againg when I try to be intouch these days she asks for money but she is employed with a better employer than me.is it one way to tell me that next time something happens I shuld not blame her,kindly let me know if I should just forget bou her,

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Yes, I am here to support the fact that you should forget about her. Look at what she is doing. She cheated on you for the sake of money and now she is asking you for money (mostly because she knows you still have feelings for her). This person is a gold-digger and she is not worthy of a moment of your thought. You have worked hard to get to where you are and she was willing to surrender a 10-year relationship with a man who loves her very much, in return for her school fees being paid. Look at this exactly as you have typed it. Do you honestly think this person deserves your time? Or your money?

If she asks for money, decline her instantly and I would advise you to tell her what your thoughts on the matter are. She is a money-hungry gold-digger and you deserve a lot better (and you always have). Explain to her how you feel and tell her that you have no intention of giving her any money (she makes more than you as it is). If she doesn’t like it, that will only further justify what I have said here. Good luck :)!

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