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He still texts her!

Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a few months and we’re really serious about each other but one thing that I hate is that he still tlks to his ex girlfriend. Okay okay I know what your thinking but I don’t know like he moved from california so thats where she is but I can’t help but think that he’s “talking to her in that special way”(girls I think you know what I mean) and it really bothers me!! Last night he was over and she text him and I grabbed his phone and it says “sorri I didn’t text you all day I was in church and I woke up late but oh that beach boys song came on” that beach boys song was suppose to be our song!!! When we first got together and we knew we were in love he sang it too me. Am I wrong for feeling completely betrayed because it was her song before mine??? And do you think he shoud be texting her still even though he knows I hate it and he says he doesn’t even like her anymore???

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Answer #1

Thanks and yea like I mean it’s not like we lie a lot or argue a lot it’s just that he told me he only texts her when she texts him and I can’t be mad at him I mean they were together for a year!! but at the same time it makes me worri because like I said they were together for a YEAR!!! And although they’re apart people do have long distance relationships. Im just hurt because it’s like he doesn’t want me texting my guy friends but he texts someone he’s been with everyday and it just annoys the hell out of me!!! I think that if he really loved me he would stop and yea we do let wayyy to much slide!!!

Answer #2

ii think its wrong beyond wrong, because if the shoe was on the other foot he wouldnt like it so much. its also dsrepctful to the relationship,because ii think when you get into another relationship with someone else you should make sure all other doors is closed and leave the past as the past. I cant say that your boyfriend might still have feelings for his ex but it sure suonds like it and I also sounds like theres been a lot of lying going on. maybe you need to check your man. as girls we let too much slide in a relationship if you know what I mean =]

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