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Have I finally found a close friend?

So maybe I’m not bi. I’ve had three softball games in the last two days, with that girl on my team that I thought I had feelings for. When I thought about it, I realized she was just a really good friend. I mean, I had moments where I thought I actually ‘like-liked’ her, if you know what I mean, like when she’d come behind me and put her hands on my waist or pick me up just to scare me half to death (haha). The funny thing is, we hardly ever talk. I mean, if we see each other, we’ll start talking, but if we’ve been there together with a bunch of people we don’t talk, we go to other friends. I feel like I have two really close friends, but do you think this could be the third??

oh, I just wanted to add: My friend thinks me and this girl are obsessed with each other because we talk all the time. I’m not sure why…anyone have any ideas? Thanks! :D

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Answer #1

My advice: Don’t be afraid to be who you are.

Answering your question: Maybe, you just like being with this girl, or around her. And thats okay. I have lots of friends I love to hang around with. You’re not obsessed, just curious about life and friends in general.

I’ll say it again, don’t be afraid to be who you really are. Don’t hide behind things or people.

Good luck.

Sariana

Answer #2

i think you did feelings are very complicated thats why u wear counfused but keep that friend lol

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