It is funny cause a report I had done showed that only 40% of bulllies or aggressors remember what they did to the victim or even feel remorse after 5 years of doing so. It also states in many referenced articles for both domestic violence, school and work bullying that the aggressor fully believes it is truly the victims fault and they come up with weak argument like oh she was a bìtch to me the first day of school. The funny thing is the aggressor usually only has one "traumatic" experience with the victim. Such as the victim shoved the agressor out of the way cause he or she is late to class. though I am pretty sure satanheadbangstometal is the aggressor we do not know the whole story. It is highly doubtful but the girl could of had a bad week and had taken it out on satanheadbangstometal sooo though satanheadbangstometal was extremely wrong there is a sliver chance she too was a victim and I emphsize sliver.
Yep. Kids who are bullied often are difficult and dismissive. And Bullies often think they provoked it. It's still unfair to lead a horde against a single one. Which you knew all along. And I'm sure you could have made her life a hell of a lot easier by just ignoring her and going somewhere else. Which you also knew all along. Fact is, you bashed that girl for your personal entertainment...... Yep, we are - all of us - nasty b4stards sometimes. Or at least we want to be, then and again. But please don't say she made you bully her. That just isn't true. It was solely your own, personal decision to do that. Me, I couldn't care less about the girl. I don't know her. But I dislike you speaking hypocrite.
Yes, I think that's mostly what it is. I knew this chick, my freshmen year, three years ago, me and a group of people didnt like her so we treated her like sh1t, made her feel like sh1t, and did really mean, but hilarious things to her. She's obsessed with hating me now. 'Til this day, she writes stupid sh1t about me on the cafe wall. She wont get over it. for the longest time I forgot all about her, but she wont drop her obsession. Ahaha. Its funny.
Bahahaha. I said, hate is basically an obsession, I hated her, so yes, I suppose you could say that means I was obsessed to an extent to. She was a bitch and deserves every second of sh1t everyone gives her. I dont feel badly about it at all, she had it coming to her, she still has it coming to her from what I hear, I got over it three years ago, she should do the same because she wasnt a "victim" at all. Haha. Thanks for your input, though. :)
Its funny how the bullies forget but the victims can't way to ruin a girls life hope u get a taste of your own medicine I really do. You deserve everything she dishes out at you and then some. Like that is the most repulsive thing I have heard today and its sickening how u think she is obessed but you werent. Pot calling the kettle black much lawls you're pathetic.
In a sense hatred is already an obsession. My aunt told me a quote saying "you might as well love the people you hate and hate the people you love because either way you are constantly thinking about them." If you find yourself thinking about ways to ruin their life or ways to make them start a fight with you its an obsession. So I guess the answer is yes it can be.
Oh, so you ganged up against her, made her "feel like sh!t" by your own words, and then put it all on her by saying, "she was a bitch"? You're a twisted one, really. And I don't really care if I sound judgmental, what you did was PLAIN WRONG AND AN UTTERLY REPULSIVE THING TO DO.
I'm assuming you aren't ashamed or repentant for what you did. :/
I don't really think that this is funny. -__-
Moast likely but you should not hate...
Agreed. Hate is obsessive dislike.
Very much agreed.