how come guys only want sex and sexually stuff including nude picts from me and not relationship? :( it really annoys me

thank you this was helpful :)

tell them to piss off and get a life.. its prats like that that give us all a bad name

yw =)

Hormones take the best of a person. They just want what they want. But you have to be the person to say no to it, you have to say I cannot degrade my selfesteem for your entertainment. You’re more than that and you obviously are a gorgeous girl, you seems smart. Don’t let people push you to do the wrong things.

Oh, that’s guys for you. Sometimes you just need to know how to bow out gracefully and wait for the guy that asks for pictures of your pretty face instead of your hott boy.

Keep your head up and hold your own girl :)

I do not know! i have been tryin too figure that out myself :(

Okay, on behalf of guys, we are not all like that. Some of us actually want a relationship and not just sex. If the relationship is good and lasts i think it can come into play eventually but not right away. If you give the pictures and if you put out you are only letting yourself down. Because once he gets what he wants he will either be done and/or want more. I dont mean anything by that but yeah, dont be easy.

im not easy not even close though, they just seem to only want that. i never said all guys but most guys r like that, only thinking about sex. Im not trying to sound rude or offend guys, thats just what has been happening with me.

Not all mature guys are confidant. It took me 2 months to ask my GF out.

u r right that most of us are like that, but I know sex was the last thing on my mind when i asked nalin out, and i know that at least 5-10 % of guys are atleast respectful of their girlfriends.

youre meeting the wrong guys. not all guys are like that. i wish i could prove it to you, but youd have to meet my friends in order to see that im not lying. there are two kinds of males in the world, guys, and men. one is a fool and a deviant, the other is responsible and minds his manners.

youre probably surrounding yourself with the one kind.

Then deal with it… To be honest there arent that many guy like…just u keep seeing the wrong guy..It is not mature or immature….. guys are perverted even when they are at age 50 or 80. Maturer guy is not always a good thing, at least the immaturity asking u for it… The mature will trick u and just take it all and drop u like a rock… Happened to my friend before… dating a guy who is 21 and she was only 14… she wanted a mature guy.

It means that a sexual relationship is all he wants & you should know that your worth more than that (:

Why was a fourteen year old dating at 21 year old??

well guys are like that but not all of them

Not all guys are lazy and purely visual, not all guys are respectful and mature. so…. Straight up you get back what you put out. Not saying you are asking to meet men such as what you described or deserve that, its all about confidence, send it out and you will get it back… but please don’t label men under one category ladies that unfortunately goes both directions and would you want men labeling women with their worst characteristics? I think not…

I am a guy and i dont allways want stufff like that from my girls sometimes its because he dont really love u and he just want to have sex with and leave so he could brag about u to his guy friends when a guy loves u he’ll listen to u and understand u

because we have short attention spans , a picture speaks a thousand words ,lol,,,, my sisters lucky she’s got me and my younger brother to vet potential BF’s no pig will get to speak to her ,,, that rules out all my freind’s lol

she wanted more mature man..

that is sooooo true

hell naw maybe she wanted to brag to ha friends that she got a man that was 21 nd guys that age and see a yung girl is sex she was kind of stupid dont take that the wrong way i aint tryin to tlk bout yo friend

well… she told me those guys are immature and she doesnt like em.. she wanted guy taht are mature… that is what happen when young girl want to be more mature…

i now how u feel i just got out of someting like that :/

Read the book Dateable: Are you? Are they? by Justin Lookadoo and Hayley Morgan. It explains everything.

Saying “How come guys only want sex and sexual stuff,” is sexist. some guys do only want sex, but there are alot of mature guys out there that understand that love is blind, like me, so that question was very offensive. it annoys me when girl on q&a sites ask Questions like this.

im not talking about all guys, im talking about how come guys only want that from ME and where i live and stuff.

im not labeling guys im saying the guys where im from only want that from ME please read thouroughly. and im nt giving them any reason to do so. never askd for it never showed for it. and i do have confidence. i never sent it out btw. not trying to sound rude

all the guys where i live r like that

and some of us are actually fun to be around

Nobody has given you a personal answer…. by the looks of your default pic, u r hott, and the assholes gravitate towards hott in the hopes that u r also easy. The nice guys r scared of you and the good men are too old to legally date you, lol…

i knoww i hate when guys do that. u like em and all they want is sex not wat u want -__- bastards:)

because they only want you for your body and the sex. if you let them get to you, you mind end up broken; greatest idea is to wait for someone with a personality worth being with.

it is not true in all case if ur bf is asking only pics and sex then it is not a healthy relation ship . i prefer perfect balance between sex and love .