Like my lips are out not to big not to small and they arent tucked in
I don't know of any guys that, in the heat of the moment, will change his mind about having sex with a woman because her vagina looks a certain way (unless she has STDs or something funky going on haha).
Maybe in extreme cases men care, but generally, it's all good. Sounds like you are perfectly normal .... so don't worry at all. Be proud.
You are totally normal. Mine are pretty much the same way.