why can't I find a guy that likes me for me???
Because you're only 14, and most guys around your age probably aren't interested in developing a long lasting committed relationship... And you are young, but that's really nothing to be ashamed about. Most of the adult population are trying their best to make themselves look and feel younger, so just enjoy your youth whilst you've still got it, and don't try and grow up too fast.
Looking in the wrong places? You're still young, you've got awhile to find that guy. :P Nothing dire to find out right now. He'll come along.
at your age, it's rather hard to find someone who isn't looking for more than physical attraction. Just wait, you'll find one soon enough.
what do you mean by looking in the wrong places??? and im not young...