It happened last year and he says he's defiantly straight, should I believe him?
@onemandog: No he didn't bring it up out of nowhere I hacked into his Tagged profile as a joke and I saw that he had messaged someone who had asked him if he had ever been with a guy and then I quizzed him and he broke down crying tellin me he's ashamed of himself because he's not into guys and that he wished it never happened and I asked him was he bisexual and he said he was just curious and wanted to experiment but that he's defiantly straight. I'm only worried now incase things get serious and then he might realise he's actually gay. I'm honestly lost here.
In all honestly, it's entirely up to you whether you believe him or not. I must say, though, in any relationship trust and honesty are both very important. If he's being honest with you, trusting you and letting you know about his past, you need to put trust into him and appreciate that he was honest to you about what he did last year. Neither of us can tell you if he's really straight or not, but unless he has given you a reason to doubt him, give him your trust and continue sharing honest talks like this with him. It's important.
Honesty and openness is one thing.................but still, I wonder why he even told you that if he isn't still thinking about it????.......... It was only a year ago.............Is he "bi"?
Why did he even bring that up?
If you're serious about this guy and aren't "into" that sort of thing, I would be having some conversation with him and find out just what the heck is going on, and if you aren't comfortable get away from him and quick.
I assume you mean that he experimented with oral sex with another man. In any case, lots of people experiment with things that they later decide isn't for them. I'm a straight guy but I'll admit to necking with another guy before. It wasn't terrible but it just wasn't what I'm into.
I can certainly understand your feelings. Tough call. Hope he isn't lying to you but sounds like you definatley have an issue to deal with.
Its not gay if he didn't make eye contact...
Thank you so much!