Guilt & Sex

im 16 and had recently had sex for the first time, it was with my boyfriend but I cant help shake off this feeling of guilt I have. its not so much reret but I dunno why I feel so wierd about it. also to make things worse, my mum said to me how proud of me she was for keeping my virginity…which made me feel terrible, is there anything I can do to rid me of feeling so guilty?

Answer #1

It sounds to me like your guilt is coming from you betraying your mother and her being proud of something that your not. The only way to get rid of that guilt - is to tell your mother the truth. That is up to you though - telling your mom you are sexually active is going to change her views of you and possilby disapoint her - but she is still your mother and she will still love you.

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