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ok so I’ve been having sex for about a year now and recently I have a boyfriend for almost a year we have sex a lot but I cant seem to orgasim he gets frustrated and I get upset… Im only 17 and I know sometimes it takes awhile for a girl/women to actually have one but im SO anxious .. .any ideas?

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Answer #1

umm, I have been with my boyfriend for 13 months & he’s been pleasuring me a lot & giving me that tingly feeling but I consider that an orgasm of course.. umm the only problem is that I’m not squirting. I get that “full bladder” feeling, but its hard for me to squirt. I talked to him about it & asked him how it feels when you have to cum. he said you get the “full bladder” feeling. than I told him that I want to squirt but I can’t. he told me to just let it out. I do push it, but I have never squirted. what is it supposed to be like? what is it supposed to look like? how can I get myself to squirt when I feel like I need to? I’m anxious & pretty embarrassed.. I feel so bad because I want him to see me squirt & I haven’t yet. I’m pretty loud & I try to hold it in because I don’t like others hearing us… can anyone help please?

Answer #2

well he does go down on me but then he gets anxious to have sex and the most frustrating part is that he finishes in about 5 mintues ha, so I cant even enjoy it most of the time=( I tried telling him but he gets offended when I say that and I cant blame him soo its a pretty tough and horrible situation =(

Answer #3

try to get him hard a second time… he will last much much longer also tell him what turns you on eg. dirty talk, “rough” handling (not too rough though) etc.

things you like him to do… also you can always try the 69… pleasure for both o_o

Answer #4

Don’t get upset. Most women never orgasm during sexual intercourse. The way I made my ex orgasm was to lick or suck her clit and keep on going and it worked every time!!

I hope I helped.

Paul x

Answer #5

You need direct stimulation to your clitoris while you have penetration. Also relax and explain to him how you feel and what your thinking. He’s being selfish by getting mad.

Answer #6

Most woman in fact DO NOT orgasm just by penetration.. theonewhosmokes is correct, you’ll need to get him or you can do it yourself to stimulate your clit during sex or before intercourse so you can also reach it. or ask him to go down on you.

But speak to your boyfriend about it openly, and have fun figuring it out together!!

Answer #7

Assuming you know how to give yourself orgasms, or have him do it if he’s not too impatient, then how about different positions?

Cowboy (girl on top facing him) or reverse cowboy (girl on top facing away) would make it possible for him or you to manually play with your clit while he’s inside you.

Otherwise, talk to him, try different things, and if he gets too impatient, he’s a toad.

Answer #8

I wish he could read these and understand im not a crazy sex girl, what he calls me… but I’ve tried them all actaully reverse cowgirl is our fav. ha .. and he doesnt know how to talk dirty I always do and he doesnt back so it makes me feel stupid ha … hopefully hell realize that im not happy after having sex ha

Answer #9

have him pile drive you with peanut butter all over his penis.. the stickeyness will make you squirt.

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