girlfriend and "friends"

i strarted dating with my current girlfriend 2 weeks ago. Before I was going out with her, her friend, (whos girl) and two guys. Those guys were my good friends. We were just haging out and things like that...u know....and then i started things with my current girlfriend. We kissed when we were out together with others. My friends started to behave very strange....we were in pub together and i went to the WC. before i left there was silence, and when i got back, my "friends" were talking, but stopped immediately as they saw me coming. and my girlfriend said that they talking about me when am not there that i am f***r and such things. i ve been talking with my gf and we found out this: one of my friends likes her and hes jealous and behaves like that becuz i am dating with her……and her friend (that girl) stopped talking to her because guy she likes doesnt like her, but my girlfriend....how to turn all back....i want to date with my love and go put with my friends...what should i do? P.S. me and those two guys playing football (or soccer) for the same team and we met girls there....they used to visit our matches and then we strated to go out together with them....just for explanation... id appreciate every advice

Answer #1

ok sounds like a case of you like her, she likes you, but he likes her to, and the other she likes that guy but cos he likes your gf everyone is screwed! very sticky situation. look, you and your gf are going out, your ‘friends’ need to accept that and be a good mate. its not your fault, you cant help who you fall for and you 2 fell for each other. Now this guy may like your gf, but thats ok, he is a guy, as long as he doesnt go past the friendship line with her and disrespect you then he’ll get over his crush on her. As for the other chick, she is just jealous this guy likes your gf also, she’ll get over that in time to. Its just a few crushes, give it time they will get over it.

Answer #2

Your welcome, and its just some innocent crushes. You should continue being yourselves around them, its not right that you cant even kiss your gf, maybe not so full on infront of them without them having a whinge about it. Maybe just chill out a bit and they will get over it.

Answer #3

yea u understood….thanx for reply. i found out that if we dont kiss and make stuff like that in front of them, its okay …cuz this weekend we were out and when were leaving(me and those two guys), we (me and my gf )strarted to kiss really hard and they all were watching, and then, when girls left i had serious argument with one friend..and next day it was okay we talked and were out all was normal. so i hope u r right and it will turn back to normal after some time….

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