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How do I know when I cum...its dark when I finger myself and im useally not so aware on my vag just the great feeling...so how do I know if I came or not??
An orgasm is not just getting wet . If you need to ask if you had one then the chances are that you have not. The feeling is such that you will DEFINATELY know!
A few examples of what an orgasm feels like in the words of different women are:
"Your body starts to shake and tingle and then when you climax it feels like you're going to pee but it's the natural excretion of fluids and it feels oh so good"
"A wave a tingles flowing from the center of your body out to the tips of your hands, your feet, and even lips. Total relaxation and a feeling of weightlessness."
"When my boyfriend fingers me I feel an intens feeling so strong that I have to actually tell him to stop because I can handle it anymore,I feel it in my thighs, I get shivers on my arms, every muscle in my body tightens my body is tingly and I feel like im high"
"There's no other feeling like it...it's a most delicious, exciting, fulfilling physical feeling"
"You can feel it coming,like you start to tingle all over and you just want more and more...this is usually the point where a screamer starts to-you know-moan and stuff. Then the rush of tingles becomes more intense and satisfying-this is usually the point where-if the guy stopped right now you would seriously hurt him-and you cant help starting to scream/moan harder and telling the guy not to stop or to go harder or whatever you like that helps make the orgasm be at its best."
"Your toes curl,you bend backwards as far as you can,every muscle tightens,at this point you don't scream your just too tuned in and in that moment,your eyes are closed-nothing else could possibly matter at this stage,you even hold your breath for a while.
Then right after this huge satisfaction and relieve falls over you and you start to catch your breath again..."
"My favorite orgasms are through oral sex. When he starts, I feel incredibly sensitive everywhere. Then the sensation sharpens and isolates around the clitoris. Everything feels hot, then when I climax, I feel my vagina pulsating and there's a few seconds of exquisite sensation. Sometimes, I'll have three or four intense spasms, then nothing. Other times they're followed by smaller waves, spaced less close together."
"When I use a vibrator, orgasm is like a strong rush of pleasure where everything is centered around the clitoris. Then I feel tension build, and pleasure build with it, until it feels like my clitoris is going to explode. I can feel myself going into spasms and my brain feels like it's being flooded."
Finally, when you are about to have your first orgasm it may feel like you are going to urinate and may stop the stimulation. You need to go past this feeling to get to the orgasm.
Once you have had a few and are used to the feeling, you will know the difference between the feeling you want to urinate and an orgasm just about to commence.
Remember, the above are individual descriptions of what an orgasm feels like to each person. Everyone is different and it will feel different for you but this should give you some idea of what to expect.
Imagine the best feeling in the world and then multiply it by 100. smile
Ladies, feel free to add to the above descriptions.
Kiasu
wow you got everything right kiasu got everythin on point so...yea dats how you no...
ull be really wet and you will feel really good
