Friends Ex Likes Me

Ok My friend went out with this boy.Soon they broke up but after they broke up I find out that he liked me.Seems normal right?2 problems im 13 hes 10 and he is the brother of my brothers girlfriend. Now if we went out that would be nasty.My Friend thinks she wants him back but hes always flirting with me.Can we say MAJOR PROBLEM.but heres the problem I think I like him too. Thats a very big think though

Answer #1

I think it depends on who you want to keep more! I think you should talk to your friend and ask her how she feels about you and her x boyfriend. if she’s okay with it then I say go for it but if shes really not then I would give it a bit of time. your young you still have many other guys that im sure would do anything to be with you! well hope this was helpful! hit me up! love tianna

Answer #2

wow same thing with me im 13 this 10 year old that lives in my couseinds basment couse his parents rent it likes me his ugly thoe but I would never go out with a 10 year old

Answer #3

dont go for him. hes to young. hes only 10 he doesnt no nething about a relationship. hes just going to be a hassel to u. its not worth losin ur friends over. he probobly will fall in love with sum1 new next week n then where does that leave u? get sum1 ur own age.

Answer #4

oh and about that age thing, if he’s ok with it than it’s fine - what does age matter anyway????? But if he’s just a kid who doesn’t know what he wants or what he’s doin than I’ll just give him some more time!!!!

Answer #5

Just forget this boy, he will dump you sooner than you will realise whats happening and you will be no where to go as you will definitely qalso loose your friends shoulder to cry on.

Answer #6

If he’s 10, beleive me he is probably pretty immature an dnot very serious. Let him flirt with you but don’t break up any friendships over this.

Answer #7

just follow your morals u don’t want to go there it sounds that it will messy.

Answer #8

My goodness you people start dating at age 10? You’re complicating your lives from so early… You’ll have the rest of your life to worry about relationships. Take it easy and enjoy being kids, that will never come back.

Answer #9

older guys lol

Answer #10

I had exactly that problem, except I was the one who got dumped by a boy and my friend started flirting with him. I know exactly how your friend feels and I kind of feel sorry for her, but if you like him and what’s more, he likes you then just do what you believe is right. Forget about your friend - she will get over it, as I did and I think it’s better this way. But if I were you, never flirt with him in front of her, or let him flirt with you in front of her, cause that will be just sad. I know that as i get it every day, and my friend either didn’t realise yet or she is just stupid on purpose. But don’t forget that if you both like each other YOU HAVE A RIGHT to be together!!!! Good luck!

Answer #11

dude hes ten there r hotter guys ure age and hotter old guys ;)

Answer #12

I think you’re a little too young to be dating. You’re only 13! This boy is 10. While the age difference between you and this boy may only be 3 years, I think a 13 year old and a 10 year old are at different maturity levels.

Regardless of the age/maturity problems, my advice is that you choose your friend over the boy. If I were in this situation, I would make it very clear to the boy that I don’t want to be in a relationship with him. Even if you do like him, it’s not worth losing a friend over and people and relationships change a lot over time. You’re only 13. You still have a lot of life experience ahead of you and boys will come and go. Also, I would sit down with my friend and tell her that her ex-boyfriend is flirting with you. Honesty is the best policy. Please trust me when I say she won’t want to be the last to know and that she’d rather hear it from you first than someone else later.

Good luck!

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