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I've had some issues with one of my friends. A couple of winters ago she supposidly got raped, and she even had bruises all over her. But most of us have doubts about that night. and then some time after that she began stealing things from my friend and I. things like jewelry/make-up stuff like that. and we could hear her riffeling through our drawers in the bathroom. this went on for months. I dont understand how your friend could steal from you like that. now I cant trust her over at my house sometimes, wondering if shes goin to take anything from me.
please comment and let me know what you think about this. thanks.
she did go to counseling but I don't know if she still goes to it. we did confront her and she gave back the things she stole from us. but the weird thing was that she gave me back stuff that wasnt mine like some earring and stuff. but im just wondering if this is a psychological thing or why she did that stuff. because its not good to steal, and especially stealling from your good friends.
The girl needs professional help. She may or may not have been raped, but she has issues when she steals from the people who stick by her. Id speak to her and tell her you know what she does and you arnt happy about it but willing to help her thru this. And suggest she speak to you, or someone about this becos it could get worse if she doesnt realise how bad this is.
if she is still stealing now then she needs to be told to keep seeing someone about it. Obviously its a psychological thing, maybe a comfort or control thing but she needs to get to the bottom of it and she needs to get help.
maybe your friend acting this way,because she sees that her boyfriend doing that and she thinks it looks fun to do.Sit her down and tell her that she needs help and that you were going to help her get.
I havent personally, but her mom has. we kind of dropped the subject and forgot about it. but I am still wondering to this day, what went wrong and what she had kind of a thing. you know?
Catch her.And ask her why she want to steal things.Ask her what happen.Get her to see doctor.Good luck! ^^
I think something wrong might be going wrong with her at home or sombody
have you tried talking to her about her actions
