yea I agree with mollzcheesecake... I also like being ontop but its different for all girls I like it because I can see his facial expressions and I like feeling the guys hands on my hips .. thats what gives me the most pleasure... but you guys have to explore different things to see what you guys like the best... but if its her first time be really gental and slow and understanding if she wants to stop... try the flavor condoms or the textured condoms...
hope this helped...
^^ No, Normalworry, s*x should never hurt, whether it is the first time or not. If it hurts, something is not right. Usually the problem is simply not having enough lubrication.
Horrormusic, girls all like different things. The only way you can find out what you and your partner like is to explore together. We can't tell you what she will like. Don't be afraid. There are no "right" or "wrong" moves. It's all about preferences.
As far as condoms go, they all feel the same to me.
I am not an expert , i have only been with one person. glow in the dark condoms are easier to find. when your in the dark. wink wink anywho, i think the main thing that turns gurls on , is if the guy is very gentle and caring. if its the gurls first time, it is going to hurt for them at first (really bad) so if yall like it kind of rough. wait until she is ready. just do what comes natural.
hope it helps!! P.S ~ I am not a freak, i just like giving this kind of advice .
I agree with mollzcheescake. I like to see that my guy is enjoying himself, also helps when theres passion and he's into it. =]
We like when we see the guy is getting satisfaction. Moans, smiles, stuff like that.