Find new friends instead?

I feel like such a bummer to my friends; and I get bummed when they don’t talk to me about it when I want to. They avoid me for a very long time until they get a straight answer as in . .”I’m doing great!” If they don’t, they ignore me a few months more and it keeps repeating! I feel alone and disappointed that they refuse to talk out feelings with me.

Wouldn’t a REAL friend stick with you always no matter what you’re going through?? and not avoid you on your gloomy days?

What can I do?

Answer #1

You’re right, a true friend, REALLY knows you and is still there in difficult times when the others run away - you can pick friends, not family - just pick some good new ones !!

Answer #2

The sad part is, I don’t know where to look anymore. All the good ones are taken and don’t care enough to be my friend. I’ve tried! ! But then. . I guess they arn’t good if they refuse me. I just keep searching for nothing these days is what it feels like. Discouraging.

Answer #3

Try going to your favorite place example (Library, swimming pool, mall ect), and find someone interesting. Go up to that person, hold out your hand and say “ Hi there, I’m___whats yours”?

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