What can I do about my family situation?

I’m 14 and my parents are divorced. I live with my mom and her boyfriend.. they both dislike me and all we do is fight… I can no longer take the emotional and verbal abuse… I would live with my real dad but heworks night shift all week and I can stay home alone at night…

Someone please help me…

Answer #1

what does your mom fight about?

Answer #2

Everything. Nothing makes her happy

Answer #3

Just hang in there… I’m going through the same thing except its just my mom nagging me to death. Are you close to your dad? Because if you are start talking to him and tell him what’s going on. If you have a cellphone or a private phone in the house, call him sometime to tell hom what’s happening. That’s what I do. I call my dad on my cell without telling my mom and she never finds out until I tell her. Meanwhile, before all that happens PRAY. Ask God to deliver you out of that hell. If your dad really cares and loves you, he would fight for you…hope that helps! God bless!!!

Answer #4

i guess u should try to talk about it with her very calming and get her or tell someone a relative to get her help…a therapist or something like that cuz abusive mothers have a lot of problemss and that are effectin u which is not good=[

Answer #5

might be a little problem because of his work situation. no judge in their right mind will allow a parent to care for a child that cant be there to take care of their child at night, unless there is a really good cause to fear for the child’s life with the guardian at hand.(meaning your mother) You may just have to deal with her behavior til you are of age…unless there is cause to remove you from the custody of your mother and into the custody of the state(trust me may be 100x far worse) or your father gets a day job & quits the night job to make sure you are safe & sound.

of course all of this may just be speculation & you just might need a lawyer to consult with if the there are issues of abuse…using that word can be very sensitive…be sure you really experience that abuse or wind up being called peter that cried wolf!

hope this helped!

Answer #6

my dad doesn’t really talk to me but that’s what I’ve been doing

Answer #7

thanks.. believe me its emotional and verbal abuse.. theres no other words to explain it..

Answer #8

She was mad once… becAuse she didnt have a tv in her room and I did… so I offered to give her mine and she took it offensively… and talking calmly to her offends her

Answer #9

i guess u just gotta have to b with her until more 3yrs..

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