How can I email a friend (like Tanya)?
Is the person a member of FunAdvice? If so, just go to her profile page and click on the big green envelope that says "FUN MAIL". It will send her a private message, like an email, that no one else can view.
Just write Tanya an email. I'm sure whoever is responsible on this site will see that she gets it, if she is a member of Fun/Advice..