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What can you do so that "it" can go in easier?

so if u n ur bf tried having sex but he couldnt put it in cuz ur to tight what can u do to make it easier to go in it, girl on top guy on top, idk anything wud help

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Answer #1

Okay, if it’s your first time, it might be best to do it in the missionary position, so he can do all the work. But if you’re on top, you can control how fast or slow you want to go, etc. Are you lubricated well? It also helps A LOT to be relaxed. If you are, it makes things much easier.

Answer #2

Use a LOT of lube and go slow

Answer #3

Some tips:

  • Use a lot of lubrication - KY jelly is cheap and very safe to use.
  • Make sure that you both are protected i.e. condoms, birth control pill etc. That way you will be a lot more relaxed and less likely to tense up because you are worried
  • Make sure that you will not be interrupted in any way, once again to help the tension
  • Try going on top, that way you’ll have easier access and be able to control how fast and deep he goes in, excellent position for your first time
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