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Do most men cum quick?

Do most men cum quick???

I have been in relationship with my partner for sometime now, and ever since I can remember he’s been having this issue. He gives me reason s why this happens, and he claims that men deal with this. He tells me that if we don’t do it every day, then its normal for him to cum quick. The problem that I have right now is that when we do it every day like jack rabbits he cums quick, when we go a day or two without having intercourse he cums quick too. I mean I am so sexually frustrated right now. Please don’t be a smart head and tell me to go masturbate to solve my problem. Well, I brought this up to my partner today and it became a big argument. I hurt his feelings and not to mention his ego, but come on now…just like men love sex us women love it too, and we need to have orgasms just as much.Do you people think I screwed up by bringing this up?

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Answer #1

Oh please! Sounds to me like you are having sex just for your own purpose. You need to think about him to. I think its mean to judge him because of it. Some guys last longer then others. There are other ways to get a orgasm, not just sex.

Answer #2

ok, here is something that will cure premature ejaculation:

its called stop and go. what you do is have sex, then when he feels he is about to cum, stop, take a 1 minute break, in the down time, kiss, rub, have him rub you. then go back at it, then do it again, and again untill you are fully satisfied, no only does this work right away, but it will make it so after 10-12 times of doing this, he can go for several minutes without the sudden urge to come, and no need to do stop and go.

Answer #3

I agree with sytstem because I do that all the time

Answer #4

No, it is called premature ejaculation and you can get a spray that is applied to the penis which numbs it slightly.

This helps the guy last longer.

Discussing this subject may be very ‘touchy’ for him as it is seen by many guys as having failed as a man. This is not the case, it is just a perception and linked to the male ego thing.

He should pluck up the courage to speak to a doc about this.

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