do I step in or will I just get in the way??

I’m worried about my best mate, her boyfriend forced her to snog him in front of his mates she did not want to but she had to, she comes into school with bruises, they look like rape bruises but I’m not sure! I asked her and she said “I fell over” but I can see in her eyes that it is somefink different, she is scared to be around him!! I have tried to tell her to break up with him but she is scared that, he will batter her. I feel like I should be helping her! because she helps me with my boyfriend

I need to help her but how??? thanks if you have a idea what I or my mate can do please say?

Answer #1

If she doesn’t want to break up with him because she is scared then you do it for her,no girl nor woman/women deserve to get raped or beaten on. If he asks why,simply tell him he’s an abusive boyfriend who doesn’t deserve a girl like her. If he refuses get some guy friend and toughen him up to get him to leave her alone.

If it continues take it to the police and have them deal with him. Your doing the right thing trying to help her.

Answer #2

The sad reality is that you can’t help someone who doesn’t want to help themself.

Keep trying to get her to open up to you, and make her understand that you will always be there to help her. She needs a lot of support right now.

She’s going through something that most likely has her terrified, but make sure she knows that she isn’t the first to ever go through this, and she is not alone - there are many resources in place to protect her from her boyfriend, and all she needs to do is ask for help.

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