Did I tell my girlfriend too much about me?

I told my girlfriend a lot of personal thoughts, my insecurities. At the time, I thought it would bring us closer, but I think it put “worry” in her mind. I feel like maybe I should have “edit” myself, not told her all my dark secrets. She’s a huge “confidence” junky, she really gets turned off otherwise, and I’m coming off as insecure big time to her, I think. Is it ever a good idea to tell you girlfriend “everything” that’s on your mind?

Answer #1

If your “personal thoughts” makes problem between you and your g/f then you do not fit really to each other. Then your relationship is a transient one. This is not bad, because most of the relationships are temporary, but it is good if you know what it is like.

Answer #2

I’ve done both in different relationships and usually women tend to keep things to themselves so I only let out a little bit at a time and after longer periods they’ll know more about me and my past. I got used and dumped the only time I’ve trusted a woman so yeah lol.

Answer #3

yeah I think you should always tell her everything. because its not good to keep things from the one person who you want to trust you the most. if she really cares, she should try and help you cope with things that bother you about your family/friends/life/body. :)

Answer #4

Yeah I agree with stephanief987 she SHOULD be happy your opening up to her so much about that kinda stuff.. and yeah I know im very shy in relationships at first, but with my boyfriend now, im very open about things and can tell him anything at all. just give her sometime to loosen up and get more comfortable with you.. then it’ll be much better for the both of you! but if shes freakin out right now, then sorry to say- but shes probably not the right girl for you.. she should respect you and like that your opening up like that.. : ]

Answer #5

I think you being able to talk to her about things like that shows a good sign. Being able to talk to someone about things like that can be difficult, doing that shows you can talk to her about things and that you trust her with things. I remember when my best friend (male) opened up to me about things, I felt a good feeling knowing that I am someone he feels he can talk to. I see nothing bad about it, no matter what your dark secrets are, she should be happy that you are opening up to her. Maybe she might have acted a bit odd because maybe shes not ready to talk to you about things yet. Just because your ready, doesn’t mean she is… theres nothing wrong with it, just give her time.

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