would you date someone if they were really unpopular?
ok, so I'm not considered a geek, at least I don't think I am, BUT I'm not popular at all. I have maybe 3 or 4 true true true friends. anyway, many people are judged according to their looks, which makes them unpopular if you're considered "ugly", like me, apparently lol. so if you did go out with the the "geek" of your school, you would probably make him feel special because nobody else but you would want to go out with him. and if people make fun of u, don't let them bother you because its their opinion, and their opinions suck. I'm just giving you advice from my own experience partially, even tho I've never been asked out and I'm in 8th grade -_- lmao hope this helps =] ~nat
I know this question is pretty old now and I already answered, but there's this boy in my school (well used to be. we graduated lol) and he was like valedictorian. some people think he's show off because he's so smart, so he only has about 10 good friends. if you have the life to go to my question about the dream I had, he's the one I'm talking about... I don't really feel like writing the whole story down again lol. so yea its there, so to the girl who asked this question, I don't know if you even still like him, I would say yes. I think I said yes before anyway... x] ~nat
basiclly it shopuld not matter if the person is popular or not. It is not about popularity. If you like thew person and they make you happy then date them ... it is about whats inside not outside.
People that base this on outside popularity are basicly shallow and will not be there for you in a crisis...you want someone that truely cares abouyt you and that is based on feel feelings ... not polularity.
I've seen this before several times. I'm assuming maybe you're in school. When a girl and guy get together and one of them is the "geek", sometimes things work out in the "geeks" favor because they actually become more popular. When they start dating they become more laid back and maybe not the "clown" or "shy" guy. It's a beautiful thing. Ahhh,... sometimes I miss highschool, but not too much lol. =)
I would date someone if they werent popular as long as he's fun, witty and has a great sense of humour I wouldnt care if no one at uni liked him :-)
Anyway why be in the "IN" crowd when you can create your own popularity by being yourself and if people dont want to date you then its their lost.
Not to be concieted or any thing but I'm not ugly and I have a lot of friends... Anyway my boyfriends kind of an outcast and itsn't that popular . But still he's great to me and thats all that matters I get dicourged when people tell me I could do better I still think he's amazing. :)
um yes why not date someone because of their social status thats kind of stuck up I think I dont even like most of the prepy people some are ok im not steriotyping but a lot of the ones I know are stuck up so yes I would and do date "geeky people"
if you really like him and he likes you then it shouldnt matter if hes popular or not... just dont screw the person over and play them cause it really hurts and isnt fair I would date him..
it doesnt really matter as long as your not with him just to make fun of him...if you like him a lot then go right ahead...and yes I would..
depends on if im interested or not, if I was interests in him ,I would . I really could care less what people say. I would do it anyway
I hate that thinking .___." well, if you really like that person. Then YES. if you didnt. then NO. its as simple as that.
if she meets my standards then sure
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im with fruitylicious on this one