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ok so this new guy started coming to my church and I am totally drawn to him. He stares at me a lot to and when I notice him looking at me, I look at him and he turns away really fast (I love when he does that) And when we’ll be in a large group of people and he makes a joke, I’ll start laughing and he looks at me and smiles and blushes. we havent talked a full conversation yet, (he’s only said like bye or see you later) but this weekend we are having a church event and he is going to be there and its going to be a good time, I figured that this was my chance to talk to him since he is obviously to nervous around me. But I am really shy but I can take not talking to him anymore! I wanna know him so bad. So what are some good conversation starters? Should I walk up to him when he’s alone or when he’s with a bunch of people? Should I just start out smiling at him or what? I am totally clueless so please help. lol thankss!

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Answer #1

Just do what feels natural.

At the church event, just walk up to him and say “hi” and smile. Ask how long he’s been coming to the church, or what other things he likes to do.

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