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im 13 and im having unprotected sex cause I really want a baby but I dont think im pregnant should he use a condom please awser back

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Answer #1

I agree. wait till you’re older. plus why are you having sex at 13? sex is a very emotional thing to deal with. and in my case I’m 17 years old and had sex for the first time less then a year ago and I thought I was pregnant for like 2 months bc I didnt have my period. I was scared to death. and I’m glad I didnt end up pregnant bc it would have ruined my life. high school is so much fun and when you have a kid its just someone else you’re responsible for. you should watch 16 and pregnant on MTV. it will open your eyes. and you should forsure not have unprotected sex. if you’re going to have sex at 13(which you shouldnt be) you need to use protection. you could get an STD or something else serious and ruin your life. be a kid, go play outside, ride your bike, and have fun before you have to handle high school and drama and having a job and paying for your own stuff. it sucks. have fun, live life.

Answer #2

YOUR BODY IS NOT READY TO BE PULLED AND STRECHED AND CHANGED WITH PREGNANCY AT 13!!! if you want a baby that bad, start babysitting! having a child so young will only cause more problems! -no more hanging out with friends all the time -school becomes harder -no sleeping with a child crying all night just WAIT ABOUT 10 YEARS

Answer #3

Wear a fricken condom! I am 13 aswell and im a guy.

if I got a girl pregnent, even if she wanted it, I would be devestated

REALLY DEVESTATED I too want kids, but relationships dont last when we’re this young. especially if there’s a kid involved. Have sex (if you want ) but dont have a kid.

Also, what if you need to abort the baby for some reason! I bet you couldn’t live with yourself.

Answer #4

Um, you probably just think you want a baby cause you like kids..You don’t really want to be a mom. Changing diapers at 13? Not going to parties, prom, graduation because you have to worry about your kid.? You have to think long and hard about whether you’re ready before you have a kid, and you’re obviously not. Pregnancy itself is really hard, much less being a parent. When you have a kid, you can’t just pawn it off like when it’s a friends. It’s life is your responsibility.

Answer #5

YES! first of all, your young you shouldnt even be having sex but its your decision , just know it can mess up your life having a baby is great WHEN YOUR MARRIED WHEN YOU HAVE A JOB AN EDUCATIOn NOt when your 13, im 13 too and I thought of having sex but I didnt because I just cant face the risk of getting a disease or being pregnant ,you just cant bring a living thing in the world just because YOU want too,and also how do you think that makes you look? -goodluck

Answer #6

YYYEEESSS

you should use a condom you may not know if he is haveing sex with other girls and hey may not know if they have stds but it is up to you if you want to have unprotected sex or not but if you get pregnat most of your time will go to your baby and it will be realy hard rasing a child at 13 and going to school so if I were you I would have sex with a condom

Answer #7

This is probably the THE DUMBEST question I’ve seen… -_-

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