Me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex soon.

it hurt sooo bad. we had to stop. but im very tiny and petite. so maybe that has something do with it…but yeah it hurt really bad for me. we havent had sex since then…im kinda scared to. and also, I’ve been “stretched” because he fingers me with like two and three fingers…but he says its kinda hard to do three figners because im so tight hahha. but our first time was so awkward and uncomfortable! I was sorta embarassed…but he says its okay and hes not pressuring me to do it again…it was actually my idea to do it in the first place. so yeah…good luck! lemme know how it goes..I wanna compare experiences haha!

trojan is good. and it does hurt but its not unbearable. for me it hurt the 2nd time and we did it every couple days and it kept it “stretched” because since you are a virgin if you do it once and then wait like a week or 2 then it will close and will hurt again. so you have to do it a few times a week in the beginning.

I would really suggest going through the bases first. And at least not having sex until fingering stops hurting you! Sex can be, depending on your age it can either be: seedy, dirty, boring, painful, shameful, disgusting, upsetting, OR it can be wonderful, exciting, loving. All depends on your age, who you are with, how long you’ve been with them, if you love them, if they love you, if they stay with you after. You’ve only been going out two months? And you’ve not even told your mum about him. I think you should slow down! Go through the steps of all the relationship, not just sexual, slowly. Be comfortable with each other! Yes it is painful in some instances. Hurt me a lot until the 5th time ish. So I would recommend you to get used to one finger then two before even trying a penis.

if hes fingered you and it hurt a bit then it shouldnt hurt that badly the first time you do it. just make sure he loves you as much as you love him. im not telling you not to do it because I think when your ready, your ready. but just make sure he isnt gonna hurt you (:

Our you Married yet,if not Don’t have Sex,if he respects you he will wait untill marriage, (Spiritually and by State Law),Think about it!,sounds like you wan’t to satisfy your own needs,your living the Wisdom of the World.Good luck.

No problem.. do what I can lol. An good luck! Glad your bein smart bout it at least!

Just make sure you dont get cheapy bathrooom condoms lol I suggest trojan… also it doesnt hurt THAT bad, but everybdy is diff. Just tell him to very easy an slow, you want to enjoy your first time not make it hurt! But honestly your first time probably isnt gunna be all your expecting but as long as he’s aware its your first time surely he’ll do what he can to make sure he’s not hurting you. Just take it slow is the best advice I can give ya.

“(Spiritually and by State Law)” state law says no sex before marriage?

thanks!!