What do I do about being bullied?

I have a friend named Rebbica and she wont talk to me because I told on her friend name cara. Ever since she became friends with her, Cara said don”t talk to me or Rebbica and do you think thats a bully? She talks about me behind my back and the friend I had laughs with her. please help me.

Answer #1

A friend cares about you and looks after yout best interests - is honest with you

If that doesn’t describe those girls, guess what ?…..they’re not a ‘Friend’….you don’t need them in your life.

Good Luck and God Bless !!

Answer #2

Hmm, I can truly empathize with you because I’ve been in similar situations myself, not identical, but similar. One thing I can tell you NOT to do, is loose your temper. That’s exactly what those girls want you to do, and do you know why? Actually, there are several reasons, I’ll walk you through them.

  1. Cara is probably jealous the bond you and Rebicca used to share and is trying to break the two of you apart to cope with her envy.
  2. These girls are 2 of those sick people who enjoy profiting at the expense of others.
  3. These girls are a couple of grade A. cowards who pick on you because they know that they can get away with it with you.
  4. This Rebicca girl is weak of character and enjoys taking rules from others. Therefore, she’s listening to this Cara b*h who’s trying to ruin your friendship.
     So, the problem is identified, and what do you do after identifyinga problem? Brainstorm solutions of course! There are several ways to solve this problem, depending on what you want the outcome to be. If you want to continue your friendship with Rebicca, you need to confront these girls seperately and tell them that they're being straight up b****z ( okay, not in that lingo, but you get my gist). You need to ask Rebicca why she's letting some jealous bitvh ruin everything between the two of you, remind her of all the good times, but don't let your guard down. Even if she does console you at the time, she'll probably end up turning her back again. It's not hard at all to find friends, but it's incredibly hard to find true ones. For that reason, I don't reccommend reinventing your friendship with Rebicca, she'll probably just end up f**king you over again. Anyhow, the best thing to do is ditch this Rebicca girl and move on with your life. Do not give them the satisfaction of knowing that what they're doing is bugging you. Don't give them the time of day, don't even look at them, they're not worthy of being graced by your precence ( lol). Believe me, once they realize you don't give a flying f**k, they'll lay off. I've had girls hate on me before and this method hasn't failed me yet. Anyhow, remember, it's nothing personal, they're just immature children trying to find themselves. They're sure as hell no better than you, so don't hang your head. Believe me, Cara will turn on Rebicca one of these days then she'll come crawling back to you. She'll really regret ditching her true friend. You'll get the last laugh hunnie. I honestly wish you the best of luck, peace!
Answer #3

Kill that biatch! No, I’m just kidding, say your sorry and that your a bad liar. Then say you wanna be friends again!Here’s a cool photo for your troubles!

Answer #4

just tell rebeca how you feel, and if she dont care she isnt worth all this trouble anyway

Answer #5

Look up friend in the dictionary..

now does that sound like what the difinition says? u get to give ur own advice.

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