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Bully of a best friend

I have had my best friend for 5 years she argus with me at every opertunity and gets angry over stupid little things she lies a lot to make herself look better and now she wants me to dump my soon to be husband and I’ve refused and she sayed if I dont she wont talk to me again but tbh im very scared of her as she is very intimadng I love her but I cant stand up to her what do I do I no its mates before boys but I refuse please help someone xxx

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Answer #1

well how about you grow some balls (not trying to be rude) and tell her no. if the relationship with you and your fiance is imprortant to you then you need to stand up for it.

tell her something like this.

well I love you and im sorry you feel that way but I love him too and he is here to stay he is my future and thats not going to change. I wish you could support me in the choices I make and be here for me but if you cant and you dont want to be friends anymore over this then I guess thats the way it has to be.

and if she is truley your best friend or a friend at all she will come back to you and if she doesnt she is so not worth your time.

she obviously is not a good firend. and takes advantage of the fact that you dont say anything to her and stand up for yourself. dont be scared of her. she is just another person and she is being selfish think about what you want.

and if you do consider throwing away your relationship with your fiance becasue SHE doesnt like him then you shouldnt be gettting married because it seems to me your relationship isnt important at all if its that easy to tear you two apart

Answer #2

If this is what you call a friend I’d hate to see what your enemies are like!

This doesn’t seem like a nice person at all! She’s trying to stop you from getting married, your scared of her and she’s intimidating you? Hello wake up! This is NOT a friend! Either get this person out of your life or be in denial and live with her tormenting and bullying you.

Answer #3

So has she always been likes this?

She probably said tha cause she is jelouse of you almost marrying your true luv I guess! And ifshe was atrue frined then she woud expect eho you are marrying if she doesnt maybe you souldnt always hang with her?

Answer #4

if your going to be marrying this guy obviously you love him and wanna be with him for the rest of your life, think about it are you going to be spending the rest of your life with your controlling friend or the guy you love!!! it’s not a very hard decision although she’s been your friend for a long time! but marrage lasts longer. and it’s not very easy to find a guy who shares the same feelings as you and wants to be wit you till the end…think about what your giving up

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