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Ok so the guy I like(sam) asked me out about to weeks ago so we’ve been together for two weeks…and all we really do is hold hands and hug. But im used to my boyfriends coming up behind me and holding me like that. Or putting their arm around my waste..do you get what im sayin? So im used to touchy boyfriends…but when ever I try to move closer to him he scoots a lil bit away. I think he is afraid to touch me. Like he might go to far or something. I dont know.

Well my question is: how can I talk to him about that? Like how can I tell him im used to having my boyfriend being touchy? Ugh can you help please!!!

P.s we havent even kissed yet :(

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Answer #1

he is being real respectful to you . just give it time and he will hold you more just give him hints and just play it out XD

Answer #2

YOUR 13 years OLD. Theres NOTHING wrong with just holding hands, and hugging at your age. You really need to STOP comparing this boyfriend with all your other boyfriends. Not every boy is going to be exactly the way you want them to be. Its only been 2 weeks, I dont know why are you in such a hurry for someone to be so touchy feely with you so soon!

Answer #3

Try to start up a conversation about how far both of you have been before. like mention a friend who’s gone further than you and say what you like of it. And then casually ask how far he’s gone. Chances are he hasn’t gone as far as you if he’s scared. You’ll probs need to give him time to get used to it but dont get annoyed with him as it will just scare him even more. You need to be open about it; tell him how you like to be touched and if he’s not happy with that you’ll just have to wait. Sorry :( hope it helps

Answer #4

I think you should just try and make the move first like when your holding hands try move his hand onto your waist or mabe the next time ye meet try wear something sexy ,show some skin ..you might get your kiss then …good luck !!x

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